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HEALing After the Loss of a Child

For nearly nine months, Crystal and Kevin Aldridge experienced the perfect pregnancy. But that all changed during a routine check-up when doctors could not detect baby Kelis’ heartbeat. Crystal had noticed that the baby’s activity had slowed down quite a bit, but she thought that was natural as the baby grew.

As doctors frantically searched for the baby’s heartbeat, Crystal said, “We knew Kelis had passed on.” She was choked by her umbilical cord. In an instant, the Aldridges’ lives were shattered. Even when doctors induced labor the following day and Kelis was born, 

“Everyone in the delivery room was still listening for that cry,” said Crystal.

The loss of their daughter was difficult, painful, and at times, impossible to accept. Prayer and support from friends and family helped tremendously. But the Aldridges said that, without the help of Atrium’s HEAL Program (Help Endure A Loss), they doubt they could have survived the most tragic moments of their lives.

Death of a Child Changes Everything

HEAL specializes in perinatal loss, providing support for both parents and their families after the loss of a pregnancy or the death of a baby. The program’s professionally trained staff stands ready to assist all families in need, at no cost. “But not everyone is open to our help so soon after the loss of a child,” said Sheree Young, HEAL Coordinator.

“I was angry and resistant at first,” Kevin said of accepting HEAL’s assistance. “But they left the door open for me to walk through, and I’m glad they did.” Kevin and Crystal appreciated how patient and helpful HEAL representatives were in anticipating the full scope of their needs. “They were always there to help me through whatever I was feeling—day or night,” Crystal said. “Even today, I can call them and know someone who understands what I’m going through will be there to listen.”

Sheree, who established the program in 1998, knows about loss. A former Neonatal Nurse, she had a son of her own who was stillborn. Shortly afterward, she began counseling others who had experienced the loss of a child. “The sadness never goes away…it just gets softer over time”, said Sheree, referring to the loss of a child. “People who have never experienced the loss find it very difficult to understand that they can only ‘walk with you, not for you.’”

Celebrating Kelis’ Life

HEAL team members encouraged the Aldriges not to focus on Kelis’ death, but instead celebrate her life. After Crystal gave birth, HEAL representatives encouraged the couple to hold and cradle their child, cherishing this special time with her. “At first I was very resistant to the idea of holding my deceased baby,” said Kevin, a Middletown pastor. “But I did, and it brought me immediate healing.”

HEAL provided the Aldridges with numerous mementos, Kelis’ footprints, and photographs—all of which helped create happy memories. The couple feels God used HEAL to help them realize that Kelis did have a life. They are grateful for all the support and comfort they received from their church, the community, and especially the HEAL program.

Content Updated: November 11, 2014

These Atrium Medical Center locations offer Spiritual Care Services.
HEAL (Help Endure a Loss) Program at Atrium Medical Center
One Medical Center Dr. Middletown, OH  45005
Spiritual Care at Atrium Medical Center
One Medical Center Dr. Middletown, OH  45005
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